The 5 Phases You may Go Via After A Break Up

There are particular not-so-superior phases everybody (sure, even celebs!) undergo after a break up, however the following tips can make getting by means of them easier.

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  The "But Everything Was So Perfect" Stage

  
  

Even if your friends insist it was a long-time coming, when you're still in shock, it's common to feel like the split came out of nowhere. Like one minute you're the adorbs couple everyone wants to be—and the next you're sitting home crying and watching The Notebook on repeat. Even if it feels like your BFFs don't understand, anyone who's gone through a breakup has been there. Even super-star Jenette McCurdy knows what it's like to feel blindsided by the end of relationship. Jennette and ex Andre Drummond were the cutest couple—constantly tweeting each other, and then next thing you know, they were totally dunzo.

How To Get Throught It: When you're still reeling from the shock of a split, it's easy to focus on all the great times you had together and ignore the bad. But remember, you didn't just randomly breakup. Regardless of who officially called it quits first, there was a reason you didn't work out. Try not to obsess over what happened or who did what; instead focus on what's next for you.

The Rebound-ship Stage

After dating the same person for awhile, you get used to having someone to hang out with all the time and text when you're bored, and it's tempting to fill that void by jumping into another relationship right away. The problem is your post-split judgement tends to be a little impaired, which means like Vampire Diaries star Nina Dobrev, you might rebound with the first guy who flirts with you next—even if they're totally wrong for you. After splitting from Ian Somerhalder, Nina jumped into the arms of her BFF Julianne Hough's bro—Derek. While dating your bestie's bro could end in disaster when things go south, lucky for Nina it looks like even though her rebound-ship did last long, her friendship survived.

How To Get Through It: Adjusting to being single again is rough, but moving on too quickly can land you in the wrong relationship and lead to another breakup (or worse, the end of a friendship!).

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  The "Girls Rule, Boys Drool" Stage

  
  

Having your heart broken is like the worst feeling ever, so it's totally normal to swear off love and relationships forever after a painful breakup and failed rebound-ship. This is where you adopt the motto, "fake it 'till you make it," proclaming to your besties that you totally don't need a relationship, love, or any of that crap. Taylor Swift has definitely written a song or two that pretty much giveaway when she was in this phase.

How To Get Through It: In addition to blasting Tay's best break-up songs, adopt the singer's other post-breakup coping strategy: spending some serious QT with your BFFs. When going through a breakup, having your friends around to keep you company and remind you how awesome you are is the fastest way to start feeling like you again.

• The "I'm So Over You…Until I'm Not" Stage

You think you're totally over your ex and moving on...until you catch yourself scrolling through your old Insta pics and sobbing over the ones where you two looked cute! Just like Selena, you may find yourself taking two steps forward only to take one step back while on the road to heartbreak recovery. The pop star recently broke down while performing  “Love Will Remember” at a concert, proving that despite her cool "I'm so over him" exterior, even stars like Selena struggle to get over an ex.

How To Get Through It: Take a cue from the singer and use the break up as an excuse to focus on yourself and making all your awesome goals happen. Don't beat yourself up if you experience the occasional meltdown after running into your ex—sometimes all you need is a good cry to help you move on from this in-between stage.

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  The "I'm Totally Happy On My Own" Stage

  
  

Besides Miley’s musical transformation, she's also gone through a major change in her relationship status. But it looks like Miley has worked past her split from fiance Liam Hemsworth and is well on her way to the "single and totally happy" stage! Miley even revealed that she's savoring her newfound single status, telling Ellen DeGeneres she's “obsessed with being alone.”

How To Get Throught It: Take a cue from post-Liam Miley and remind yourself that you don’t need a guy by your side to be happy. It’s time to see just how strong you can be—all on your own!

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